Death Benefits

Death Benefits

How Losing A Parent Can Change An Adult's Life-- for the Better

Book - 2008
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Although five percent of the population loses a mother or father...few of us are psychologically prepared for the experience in later life. Death Benefits explores the uncharted territory each of us enters when a parent leaves us, and offers a blueprint for positive change in every aspect of our lives. Death Benefits demonstrates through powerful stories (including the author's own revelatory experience) how parent loss is the most potent catalyst for change in middle age and can actually offer us our last, best chance to become our truest, deepest selves. Safer challenges the conventional wisdom that fundamental change is only for the young; and that loss must simply be endured or overcome. Filled with moving and engaging stories of real men and women re-imagining themselves after a parent's death, it is a fresh, impassioned, and sophisticated look at self-transformation in later life.
Publisher: New York, NY : Basic Books, 2008
ISBN: 9780465072118
Branch Call Number: ANF 155.937 SAF
Characteristics: viii, 226 p. ; 22 cm


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May 07, 2018

Such a wonderful, hopeful book.
Psychologist Jeanne Safer--and the men and women who share their stories with her/us here--offer thoughtful, even inspiring, meditations on the complicated parent-adult child dynamic and how the life and death of our parents deeply affects us.
There are positives--new insights and the possibility of happier lives--we can take from both experiences, even when dealing with difficult (neglectful, competitive, narcissistic, damaged, depressive, or rejecting) parents, especially after that parent dies.

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